Executive Functioning and Fancy Cars

It is like we are a factory, building up the cars that our kids will use. We spend years perfecting the engine, the tires, the exterior paint, the windshield and seats. And during those years we let the kids sit in the driver’s seat. And we tell them to practice driving. And then, when they go too slowly to meet our deadlines, or when they take a route that we weren’t expecting, we get impatient and just jump in and PUSH the car where we’ve asked them to go. And some of them might defy us, or manage to convince us that they are competent, and may manage to sneak in a little practice and they may learn to drive a little, but only very short distances. And if they go off course, we shove them aside and take over the driving, or resume our pushing. What we need to do is help kids build great cars – skills, knowledge, interests, experiences – but also focus on teaching kids to drive those cars. Drive them long distances, over hills, though dips and twists and turns. How to change a tire, or fill the oil, or open the hood and poke around when the engine dies. Otherwise we trap our kids inside these fabulous cars we have helped them build, wondering why, after all that work in school, they never seem to get any closer to their dreams… just sitting in those fancy cars waiting for someone to push.imgres-2


Wright Brothers and Execution

Execution. This is the difference between the you that you are and the YOU that you maybe sorta could be. You know, if such a discrepancy exists in your world.

To follow your dreams and live your fullest life takes a lot of high-powered execution. For example, if you want to build a flying machine, you have to dream it up and have the engineering knowledge to build it, but you also have to have the self-control to make a plan and execute on it. All the way to the end. Until you’re flying.

THE WRIGHT BROTHERS, for example…

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were probably not the only people who were dreaming of flying, or the only people with the kind of technical knowledge needed to build a plane. They had…

DREAM + KNOWLEDGE + EXECUTION

THESE OTHER PEOPLE…

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…may reasonably represent the number of others humans on earth in the early 1900’s with the dream to build a flying machine and the technical knowledge to get there. At minimum. But you’ve never heard of them because they didn’t build flying machines. They had…

DREAM + KNOWLEDGE  

Sound familiar?

“That was MY idea. I could have done that!”